Secret of making children succeed- Stop being a pushy parent!!!
I know all the parents want their kid to be the best and to win all the competitions. But isn’t that what all parents want for their kid?
Being a teacher, I have encountered hundreds of parents who are an embarrassment for the child. Do understand the consequences of your competitiveness- EMBARRASSED CHILD, BEING MADE FUN AT SCHOOL, TEACHER’s DON’T LIKE SUCH PARENTS-THEY ARE A PAIN FOR THEM. So here are few cautions that you may consider for better upbringing of your child
- Don’t be forceful– Dear parents, I understand that you have unfulfilled dreams which you might want your kids to complete. Please donot do that. Don’t put your choices on them. Don’t buy a toy beacause you wanted it, think if your kid needs it! Don’t make your hobbies their hobbies, let them explore themselves.
- Stop interfering in school– Sometimes there are genuine reasons to reach the school administration but stop interfering in class activities. Like give him/her a role in play, he/she should be in the first row of dance, why did he/she not get A+ in this and many more. I hope I’ve made my point.
So i would like to end it by saying that every child has potential, let them discover it on their own by encouraging them, motivating them, by being supportive and making them independent and sit on the driver seat. You mean while relax and enjoy parenthood.
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